Are You Confused About How the Law of Attraction Really Works? Part 4

Law of AttractionThis is a 4-part blog series that addresses the confusion around how to use the Law of Attraction.

In Part 1, I’ll discuss what is causing the confusion and introduce you to the clarifying questions you need to ask before you can manifest anything using the Law of Attractions.

In Parts 2, 3 and 3, I’ll discuss the three main approaches to using the Law of Attraction and cite examples of when to use each of the approaches.

Three Approaches to Manifestation

In the previous blog post we discussed the first two approaches:

First Approach – Focus specifically on what you want.

This is best used when:

✓Resistance = none (0)
✓Close = very (0-1)

Second Approach – Find the essence of what you want, be general, not specific.

This is best used when:

✓Resistance = some (1-3)
✓Close = not too far away (2-3)

In this blog posts we’ll talk about the third approach:

Third Approach – Focus on something else besides what you want. Be neither specific nor general.

Rather, take stock of all that is good in your life, and what you want will come to you at the right time. In other words, take you eye completely off what you want and just allow it to come.

Are you confused yet?

“The Law of Attraction states that you will attract into your life — whether wanted or unwanted — whatever you give your energy, focus, and attention to. ~ Jack Canfield

This is best used when:

✓Resistance = high (9-10)
✓Close = sometime in the future (8-10)

This approach is perfect if, every time you think about what you want to manifest, all you can see is that it hasn’t yet manifested.

People who are in this stage of manifestation have high resistance, and the balance of their feeling about the manifestation is in the direction of not having it. They are not really ready for manifestation to occur, even though they may want it very much.

When you have high resistance, it means you are quite far from manifesting what you want. You may even be in a state of anger, fear, or desperation. If you find yourself in a moderate or higher state of resistance, then focusing on something specific will only increase that resistance and your feelings of anxiety and doubt.

Therefore, the best thing for you to do is to take what you want completely out of the equation. Don’t even focus on it. Focus on other aspects of your life that are going well. Once you do, resistance in other areas will lessen.

“My good is constantly coming to me, so I relax and enjoy my life.” ~ Louise Hay

There is a lot of confusion surrounding the Law of Attraction and how to use it effectively. The key to using the Law of Attraction successfully is two-fold: recognize how much resistance you have toward manifesting what you want, and determine which of the three approaches to manifestation to use in your present situation. Once you know these two things, you will be well on your way to utilizing the Law of Attraction to deliberately create everything you want to manifest.

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